unHappy Holidays?

The holidays are filled with happiness, right? They’re a time of thanksgiving, celebration of the birth of Jesus and the hope of a new year.  Yet, with more than 2.4 million deaths in the U.S. each year chances are that someone you know is missing a loved one this holiday season. 

Here are some ways you can help a grieving friend:

1. Don’t be afraid to talk about their loved one.  They are already thinking about them, so let them know that you are too.  Most people who are grieving love to hear the name of their loved one and to know that others share memories of their special one.
2. Invite them to do something.  They may be feeling lonely and a simple invitation may brighten their day.
3. Encourage them to find a special way to remember and honor their loved one.
4. Call them and allow them to talk about their grief.
5. Do something special to show you care. Be creative!  (A family member had a star named in memory of Ashlynn to recognize her on Christmas… another person sent us a tree to plant in her memory.) 
6. Sent a note to say you say you’re thinking of them.
7. Remember that while you’re busy shopping and celebrating, they may be feeling lost and alone.  Be patient with them in their grief.

I pray that you experience the hope and joy of our Savior this Christmas… and challenge you to reach out to show someone you care

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2Corithians 1:3-4

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